How To Get Married and Stay Married To The Perfect Mate!!This book will talk about the ways and theories of how to stay marriedone you are married. It will cover stuff like communication, similarity,physical attractiveness, similarity, balance and equity theory, and proximity.Communication is important in relationships. I will cover the aspects ofnon-verbal and verbal communications. In the book I will convey the differencesin the way men and woman think and this will help give a better understanding ofeach other and will in turn allow them to work out their problems effectively.
..Another aspect I will talk about is the reinforcement theory.
Thistheory talks about the fact that you will like someone who positively reinforcesyou. I will talk about how this theory can be used in marriages to keep couplecloser together, keeping them liking each other.In my book, I will also talk about the balance theory. The balancetheory is the notion that people have the same negative and positive ways ofthinking.. When this is not so, you have an imbalance which can disrupt arelationship. I will talk about how a couple can use the balance theory to makesure that they will be happy.
Another theory I will talk about is the equity theory. This theorydictates that people will be more attracted to someone that they have a fairrelationship with. It states that we will be happier with a person who takes asmuch as they give to us. Over a long term relationship, like marriage, this isimportant because both husband and wife feel that they are approximately equal.In my book I will talk about how to use this theory to makes sure that bothcouples get the same out of the relationship.I will also talk about proximity in my book.
Proximity talks about beingnear to your partner. It is important because if one partner is away all thetime, the couple will not become as close. I will deal with the aspect of how tostay in close proximity with your partner and this will lead to a closerrelationship between the two.
It is also important to start a relationship withsomeone who is near to you because this will allow the relationship to betterdevelop itself.Also, there must be similarity between the couples. In my book I willtalk about finding someone who has similar interests and traits. When two peopleare similar, the more likely they are to be attracted to each other and the morelikely they are to be happy while they are dating and when they are married.The last thing I will talk about in my book is physical attractiveness.
Like most people, physical attractiveness is important to me. Physicalattractiveness is important and in my book I will talk about people thinkingthat once they are married that they do not have to look good anymore and Iwill also talk about marrying someone who you are attracted to. People have tocontinue to take pride in their looks when they are married and this in turnwill make for a happier relationship.In conclusion, my book will take all the aspects mentioned above intoaccount which will help people pick the right mate and help them stay married tothis person. I believe this book to be a best seller and look forward to gettingthe $100 000 royalty check from you in the near future so I can start writing mybook.